For #LDWeek17 here is how our Enablement Assistant Hilary Taylor-McCaffey is finding her role:
I wanted to share a little bit about my experiences with Ian so far.
I have worked in care for the past three and a half years. Before that I went through job after job, constantly looking for something rewarding and engaging. I constantly felt like I wasn’t making a difference, and so I would move onto the next job looking for that missing spark.
I recently bought a house with my husband and we made the plans to move house. Part of those plans was for me to change jobs, and I was keen to look for something similar to what I was already doing. I answered an ad to work for PBS4 and was lucky enough to meet Ian on the day that I interviewed. We had a great chat and he had great banter, and I was immediately intrigued to learn more about him.
When I started working with Ian I had big plans for him. I suppose I had a sense that I would be walking into his life to help him in some way, and those illusions were soon dashed! Quite the opposite became true: I found I was learning more from Ian than he was learning from me. Instead of me showing Ian how to fit into the world, Ian was showing me how the world should fit around him.
In the few short months I have been working with Ian, he has taught me to meet the world head-on. In this age of self-absorption, Ian reminded me how important it was to talk to people, to make friends on the bus, or just start a conversation with someone in a waiting room.
He taught me to not fear new situations, and to express your feelings in a way where people would listen.
I could go on and on! But I think I’ve summed it up enough. I thought I was getting into care to help other people, but I had no idea how much the people I support would be helping me.